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08 Feb 2006

cold heart
Hi, hope you guys can help. Im not a loveable person or a romantic person & in for some or other reason my job has always been more important to me than love. i have had 2 serious relationships that both ended because i had such a cold heart and i realised that i must give more in a relationship if i want it to last. i have now met this wonderful man and he will move the earth for me, he takes times off work for me, he phones me 5 times a day at work and wants to talk for hours and he drives long distances to come and see me, i tried really hard to be understanding and to make some effort but its just not me, when he phones me now to work i dont want to answer because i have so much work to do and i dont sms him so much in the day anymore and he just cant understand that this is the way i am. ive told him that this is how i am and he said well then he is obviously not my mr right and i dont feel the same for him as he does for me. i like this guy alot and i dont want to lose him but he cant seem to accept me for who i am. will i ever find true love with my cold heart? :'(
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Explain to him that while its nice that he seems so caring, you ghave a great deal to get done at work, and distractions and disruptions make it harder to get done what you need to get done. Meanwhile, he sounds seriously underoccupied.
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