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07 Feb 2006

Confused
A while ago I told you guys about a guy I use to work with and fell very deeply in love with - A few years have passed and I have dealt with the fact that he does not feel the same about me as he told me. We lost contact for a while but when it picked up again I told him that I think it be best if I do keep a certain distance as I do not want to find myself in the same position cause I know deep down that he still means a lot to me,.....He kept on asking to get together to which I always replied the same and eventually seemed like he accepted this...but every now and then he'd still ask. I was a part time dance instructor and now he has also been asking me to give him lessons ofcourse to which my reply was the same. Last week he mails me and tells me that he has a proposition for me....that he will trade me dance lessons for massages (He is a personal trainer and therefor does this as a pofession).....I was really really confused as to how he can still make such a offer knowing what I have told him ?. He has always been a very good and caring friend to me and always treated me with the admost respect but this really was confusing and i guess even hurt me in a sense ... I did not feel like starting an argument and sort of avoided answering the question but really felt like sending him in his glory and asking what the hell that is suppose to mean....I guess I just needed to share that and really dont know if I am over-reacting
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hmm. Persistent, isn't he ? The offer of something as intimate as a masage suggests he has more than that in mind, doesn't it ?
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