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04 Sep 2007

Confused
My b/f and I get on really well. But things just seem to get worse. Ok I did stay and party with his mates when he went home. his one mate asked me to go home with him, I refused.
My b/f has been fighting non stop with me since then. We are not intimate, but he says we are moving to fast. I haven't asked him for marraige or kids, Just honesty!! Then after he said that we are moving to fast, then he says we must forget everything about the fight. He wants to be with me. but acts like this. It's my first relationship in 4 years. i don't want to mess this one up. But how do i handle his insecurities and mine.

Should I just walk away now.

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like neither of you are very mature, yet, and as though you are not on the same page with each other as to just what this relationship is or what you want ot to become. That he was so jealous about the party incident suggests he may care about you, perhaps more than he realized. At least, the time has come to sit down together calmly and quietly and talk this through, to better understand yourselves and each other, and what you want. Only once you've decided where you're going can you decide how to get there
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