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13 Sep 2006

Cyberdoc re: post 2750
Hi Doc,

Thanks for the advice - I would however, just like to clarify one or two things.
The computer is both of ours, so we share the PC, and I pay for the internet account. I don't go looking for the things - I often go back into the history to find websites I've previously come across with searches (I love doing research on various topics of interest of mine) - and I don't have internet access when away, so when I come home, I download my mail and do some reading. That's when I find the stuff, what else am I supposed to do - never use the PC? I've considered buying my own, so that I don't have to share one with him and find the darn stuff, but realistically I just don't have the funds now. I'd quite honestly at this stage be one of those wives that goes along in life and pretends to herself that her husband never looks at porn - I'm just battling to do that.

Oh well - such is life.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

OK, understood. But isn't the real question not is it OK for your husband to look at porn occasionally, but WHY does it matter so much to you if he does ? What are you assuming it says or means about you ?
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