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17 Jan 2006

defining something....
Hey CS...

how goes ?? *grin* I have a question... I'm seeing this guy he is divorced got two kids... so now I haven't defined what we have.... we have joked about it like are we girlfriend/ boyfriend and I suppose in a way we are... I am very difficult regarding this as he tells me that he is not seeing other people or sleeping with anybody else but because of the history with my X I am very sceptical I actually don't want to think to much of it... so I think that is part of my problem defining this something... a girlfriend to both of us asked him last night so how are things between us and his answer.... I don't go anywhere without her.... just to explain he stays in his own place and I in mine we spend weekends at each others place and sleep over etc. but during the week I normally stay at my place and he would be with the kids or go out with friends for a drink or whatever.... there are male as well as female friends.... so anyway what does "I don't go anywhere without her" means ??? I suppose I'm just trying to sort things out for myself... I don't want to get married soon if ever.... we also spoke about kids... his previous answers were always I have two children and don't want anymore. So this time he said what purpose would a child bring to our relationship ?? Now please understand I feel very strongly about this, I don't want kids. He on the other hand is always saying to me you can't say that you will have kids one day.... so CS.. am I reading to much into any of this trying to figure this one out ???

thanks for listening and have great afternoon !

Noodle
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Complex situation, Sopunds as though sometimes you may indeed read too much into the situation, maybe sometimes too little
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