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07 Feb 2006

I am 24 my fiance is 30 we have a 20 month old baby who is not difficult at all the issue is that my fiance is always too tired to do anything during the week after work yet can carry on partying from friday aftternoon till sunday night.He does not help with baby as he says i am the mom and the women and it is my job to do so i am worried as our sex life is also non existent and we disagree alot is this a match made in hell should i get out i am realy feeling unloved and worthless as he constantly tells me i am untidy as well as too loud i work too and all i need is a 50/50 relationship which it is definately not. He gets home sits in front of the tv,eats and falls asleep on the couch there is no communication PLEASE HELP IS HE DEPRESSED ?????????????
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01 Jan 0001

I also find it remarkable that someone who is so tired all week, and too tired to do any household or relationship chores, has endless energy available for partying. He seems to have primitive ideas about the place and role of a woman, and a nasty impact on your emotuional well-being --- why on earth stay in a relationship with him ? IF he would sincerely join you in marriage counselling, maybe something could be achieved, but otherwise, I dont see any reason why he would change. What you see is likely to be all you'll get.
Oh, and he's surely not Depressed --- nobody who is epressed could ace all that partying. Lazy, selfish, maybe
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