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11 Nov 2003

Ex-husband wants us to try again?
After 3 years of married-life & no kids, my husband has met a married woman with whom he had a very serious affair (200 SMS's a month, he went out with her on OUR 3rd wedding anniversary earlier this year, etc,.).
We went for marriage counselling (on my request), I forgave him and took him back several times after all the lies & deception, but he coudn't stop this affair. I was heartbroken, moved out of our house and filed for a divorce about 6 months ago. Before the actual divorce went through, another girl moved in with my husband - she stayed with him for 2 - 3 months whereafter he asked her to move out as he wanted his "space".
The past 2 months my ex and I have been seeing each other - and he wants us to get together again. He has declared his love for me on many occations, he regret what he has done and told me that we are meant to be together, and (once again) has promised that he will stop the relationship with the married women.
My question is: Should I give it another try after everything that I went through (because I still have feelings for him and longed for him for so many months). Do people really change & what is your opinion on re-marrying your ex?
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CyberShrink

01 Jan 0001

Answered at the other place you posted the question.
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