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30 Sep 2006

GF has serious TRUST issues
just thought I'd post summin here.. my girl of almost 8 months still has serious trust issues. I have no idea where she gets it from as I have given her no reason to doubt me.

in brief, you know those NOSH chocolates that come with those little tattoo's inside the wrapper.. yeah I put one on my wrist and it peeled off a bit.. she asked me and I said it's from a chocolate.. later that evening I get an sms saing "if you can't answer via sms what chocolate you got it from, then I don't want to see you again and don't want you contactin me, can't believe I ever believed you". I tried phoning her.. but really I'm sick and tired to have to justify my actions ALWAYS.. I do not go around deceiving or cheating on anyone!!..

what should I do.. thinking of going to her place later and giving her the chocolate!.. why do people have these trust issues?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

As you're realizing, you can create trust problems in anyone, but some people arrive with trust problems as part of the package. But for her to create a scene over something as trivial as a fake tattoo and a chocolate ? That's truly pathetic. Give her some time, and hopefully she'll recognize that she has been ridiculous and get real again
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