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10 Sep 2007

he could not say thank you
Yesterday my bf had to run a choral show and had asked people to help him with the catering of which they disappointed him. so i steppedin and helped him with my time energy and hard work i went all out. i made sure his guests ate had drinks where well taken care of they practically had the true VIP experience i then cleaned out the venue took all the dishes speakers everything into my car by myself took his mom home made deliveries for all his other borrowed equipment while he was chatting to his guests and different associates he did not help me with one thing i mean lifting a table and putting it up decorating it. Throughout the entire evening people are praising my great work the beautifull hall good food my hospitality the way i handled everything in stride even when his friends came up to me and said you worked so hard and are so tired this is what he said " she is not as tired as me what did she do" hello all he did was be an mc sing run around talking just talking. As we drive to the last delivery place we're sitting in the car and he makes some comment and i said i was hoping to hear something else he goes like what , i then responded with a thank you Thandi and he just goes on some dont start with that s$#t now im tired and it just went sour from there he became mean and well i threw him out of my car with all his shit told him to get his stuff his response you are crazy this woman is insane she is upset that i dont want to say thank you.
my question am i overeacting or is the something wrong with him , can a normal person really do this after being rescued from total failure insult the very person who helped him like this?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

What an ungrateful little twerp he is ! GOod for you for putting him out of your car with all his stuff --- let him walk home. And next time he organizes and event so he can show off, let people discover how well he can run things on his own. Of course you're not over-reacting, and its time he learned how to be grateful and humble
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