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05 Oct 2008

I have a problem with my husband everytime we have an argument he says I disrespect him and I mean nothing to him.He phoned me using private numbers and I did not phone back because I didn`t know who was calling me.He then call me and says why didn`t I call him is it because I am afraid to call him because there is a guy who calls me?I find him strange because he is the one who disrespect me.We argue every week and I am the one to be blamed and he is always right.When I suggest councelling he refuse to go.I am at my wits.Please help
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01 Jan 0001

He has an odd concept of respect, as he is as much obliged to respect you as you should respect him, and respect includes listening carefully to what your partner says and taking their concerns seriously. Yell him you want to sort out these problems between you so you can both be happier, but if he won't join you in marriage counselling, you'll see a counsellor by yourself, but you would really appreciate him showing the maturity and love to join you
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