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26 Oct 2006

I am just so tired!
Me and my husband had sex 8 months ago. He said that he doesn't have a need for sex anymore. he also said that he don't love me anymore. We sleep in seperate bedrooms. We have children. He does stimulate himself. He said he is confused and I must give him time. But how long is long enough because I can't go on like this anymore. Days go by without hin talking to me. He also avoid touching me. He had this 40 min talks with another lady but according to him it is work related. Please give me advise, because I don't know anymore!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Confused may be right. Maybe he's having an affair, maybe he's getting really mixed up about what he wants in life, but whatever the reason, he is being extremely unkind to you and extremely selfish and self-centred. I agree with Pluto and kat --- either he should commit himself to join you in mariage counselling, or you would need to reconsider your options.
ANd kat is not being unduly repetitious --- there seems to have been something wrong with the site today, and for a long time I couldn't get through to it at all
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