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18 Jan 2006

Im so dissapointed
Hi everyone i'm so dissapointed and i dont know what to do really. I just found out that my sister in law has to terminate her pregnancy because the childs neck its growing dramtically and its affecting the head and they said its dangerous for the mother. My brother came home yesterday looking for me and i was not there and he told my mother and she was crying a lot and when i got home she told me. Now i didnt even call my brother nor my sister in law coz i really dont know what to say to them.

Last weekend we were at my other brothers place for a weekend and my other sister in law is also pregnat she found our during december after plenty of tests that showed that she will never be pregnant. We had a really good time and everyone was happy and today im so dissapointed and sad.

Please help me i dont know what to say to them please help me.

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sister Zazi --- so sorry to hear about this. As in similar situations, what you say is far, far less important than that you are there and available to listen. You simply use your own words to say that you are so sorry to hear of this, and that you will be around whenever she needs or wants to have you there
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