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19 Sep 2007

Is it over???
Well we broke up 4 months agodue to her cheating .In fact she dumped me after I found out about her cheating with her ex...so she told me that she is not involved with him but merely "spent"the weekend with him...no sex just kissing....(all lies I suppose).

We have a 4 yr old son who we both adore and would never hurt...My question is this....how can I move on after 6 years together???she is not seeing any1 at the moment.
I asked her if we could kind of sort this thing out as I love her to bits...I actually wanna spend my life with her.......but she said she is confused...I've started a new "senior" job on Monday...with loads of benefits....(benifits i would like to share with her and our son...but I don't think she wants to be with me anymore....I don't want to become too desperate to get her back...I have tried fighting this love feeling for her...tried making friends with other ladies, but I just can't get her out of my mind...and heart...

Am I trying to hard,?must I move on???what about my love for her???Is it worth trying???she cheated on me ...& I think I have forgiven her...and I want to b with her....

Is there any hope for this relationship???She knows I offered her and still can offer her the world....but she is ssoo confused......what should I do huh???
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Maybe working with a counsellor would help you move on more efficiently. YOu're probably well rid of a woman who thinks its fine to spend a weekend with her ex, so long as they "only" kiss. But she's really foolish if she leaves so easily without trying, in marriage counselling, eg, to sort things out. From the sound of it, it'll be up to her whether this possibility exiss, as you are already ready for it.
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