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29 Sep 2006

Is it wrong or rude??
Is it wrong or rude to take a principle stance that i wil not defend something i am innocent of.

BF has a tendency of accusing me of things i havent done or said. he tend to misinterpret things, and never seeks to understand me before making a judgement. i find myself all the time having to defend myself over things done innocently, or even when i could be wrong, it was unintentional.

now i have told him that were i am innocent, i will not defend myself, especially when he doesnt even put any effort to understand what and why i did something. He is says its rude and arrogant! is it??
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01 Jan 0001

yes, he does sound immature and selfish and insecure in his point of view. Would relationship counselling be an option ?
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