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05 May 2004

IS MY MARRIAGE A LOSING STREET
I am 25 and married with one daugther of two. I am not happy, because my husband and I dont talk, dont have regular intercourse and dont really like each other anymore. I say this because we never phone each other, never spend quality time together, and quite frankly I dont know if I want to anymore. Our foundation of our marriage is non-existent, he leaves the rearing of our daughter up to me. He only worries about how much money I bring in as I am the higher earning partner. He is always carrying on about threesomes and massages and how he would love me to be with other woman - I find the idea of it revolting and cant believe his little "jokes" - they upset me and still he carries on. We dont communicate - I am an attractive woman - I dont even think he sees it.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I can understand why you feel "Tired" of what sounds like a burned-out mariage. Marriage counselling might well help, but from the sound of it He woul;dn't be keen on participating. The chat of threesomes and massages sounds like he is sexually fading out, and imagining that something more saucy might turn him on, which is rather sad. But the two of you do sound rather young to be reaching a sate of marriage some others hit in their 40's.
Anyone else have ideas here ?
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