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26 Aug 2011

IS SHE CHEATING?
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Ive been with my GF for 6yrs now and lately she has been very secretive, like everyday she deletes her dialed, received and missed calls, she does not even want me to hold her phone anymore with out ha freaking out, in the past it was all ok cause we access to our fones anytime and passwords to everything but now she has changed, could she be cheating and hiding something or not? and how do i confront her?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I don't know if she is cheating, she hasn't told me.
Yes, cheating is quite often the reason for someone you've known for some time suddenly becoming secretive. And whast you're describin does indeed sound suspicious, especially as it seems to be a recent change in how she behaves. So of course she COULD be cheating, or maybe hiding something else that could be significant.
Confrontation is hardly ever as useful as people seem to imagine, but couldn't you just choose a pleasant time and calmly point out how she has sudenly changed the way she behaves about this, and that this is obviously worrying and puzzling for you, and is there perhaps something she needs to tell you ?
After 6 years, which is a really long time, maybe she has become ready to move on and hesitated to tell you ?
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