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08 Feb 2006

Is this love or abnormal?
Is it normal when your bf doesnt want you:

·To have friends, yet he has load of friend scartered around the universe.
- Not supposed to look or talk to male people.
·Go out, even with him.
·Is opinionated about the way you dress, make up, hairstyles
·Does like when you visit friends and family.
·Not supposed to talk about or drink alcohol in front of his friends and colleagues.
·You are supposed to get to work, then straight home, you cant even go shopping.
·You are not allowed to go to work functions, and suggest that its better to take lunch than go out for lunch at work.

There reason for all these, is that he loves you too much and is scared to loose you. Is it normal??

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Well, I'd worry a bit about his friends on Mars and Venus ; these aliens can get troublesome.
Seriously, you seem to be describing a guy who is controlling and insecure and suspicious --- no such thing as loving YOU too much, but he sounds as though he loves his own feelings of control, and his own vision of how you have got to be, to please him --- too much
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