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02 Oct 2008

Jealousy and insecurities
Hi,

I need to stop being jealous its killing my relationship with my boyfriend.

How do I stop being jealous, how do I trust him... I have been so broken before that I' m destroying this coz of my insecurities, becoz of the past.... what must I do... :o( I' m pushing him away and its not him... its me so scared to let trust someone again..... why can' t my life just be better...

what else can I do and read .... please help me stop, I love this man... and he is innocent in this ...

My previous Boyfriend physically abused me and I' m so scare of open up and allowing myself to trust completely.

he chats on mxit and we meet there, but I' m so jealous of the woman on there, but they mean nothing to him, coz he loves me and I keep making a issue... how can I stop or I' m going to loss this man copmpletely.

thanking you in advance.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

There's no simple formula I can give you in this telegraphic form. But see a good counsellor, of the CBT form, to work on the jealousy and related issues such as probably low self-esteem and trust. You may be applying to a nice bf bitter lessons learned from a previous abusive one.
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