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25 Sep 2007

Lost Trust
How do I get things out of my head that happened in June 2005? I came across email that my husband send to a lady he worked with, According to him he only gave emotional support. She was going through a divorce and he suported her. He even told her he loves her and cares for her and her boys. According to him,he said that to stop her fro commiting suicide. He said nothing happened but I do have this feeling that he did not tell me the truth. I have not seen any therapist after this. He was out of the country for a year Aug 2004-Aug 2005,so he did not see me suffring through emotions. I am finding it very difficult to trust him again. I love my husband so deeply,but I am so afraid that I will cause the problems in our marraige!!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

It's possible that there was indeed something to worry about, or that you may, in your own mind, have been exaggerating what happened and what it means. You do need and deserve to see a good local counsellor / therapist to work through all these4 issues, get things into proper perspective, and get ready to move on. If it seems appropriate after you have begun to see a counsellor on your own, you may want to expand this into joint mariage counselling, going together
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