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12 Sep 2008

Mother/Son showering/bathing
Hi, I have a query, that I find abnormal but may be normal. My girl friend showers in front of her 13 year old while he is bathing and thinks it is a normal practice. The son seems to think there is nothing wrong with it either. I don' t think its healthy, am I worried about nothing or should I be concerned?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

There's something to be said, within a family, for not making a very big deal about anatomy and nudity, though its also important ( as the child will have through life to interact with other people with different attitudes, to foster a sensible sense of privacy and modesty, too. There are no necessary ill-effects, but much depends on other elements of the relationships, and some mothers are unwholesomely seductive towards their sons --- and at early adolescence this could be bothersome and confusing for the lad
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