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02 Nov 2011

NO WORK BUT CHATTING
So my husband not been working now for a few months, i am working travelling for my work locally and really very stressed.

Last night i just had this feeling that he is chatting with someone else, he" s starts treeting me different and also very " off"  with me.

I checked his laptop ,he is chatting on few sites and also on atlest 15 porn sites......

We have been together now for 25 yrs and this is the trend i catch him out we fight i forgive him, few months down the line he does the same thing.

It agrevate me he should be looking for work! Not chat!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Maybe this particular pattern isn't working for either of you. Have you tried not "catching him" then fighting, but talking about it, about what worries you, about how it is for him at home and workless while you travel for work, and so on ?
I agree he's unlikely to find work on chat sites, but does he ALSO seek work during working hours ? Have you discussed with him how he feels about being unemployed, and where he is looking, and whether you might be able to help ?
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