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26 Sep 2007

Not doing to well - need help
please can you help me.

i wrote to you yesterday about the situation at home! i am not feeling well about it. my husband and I are on better terms however he doesnot want to get close to me because he says he needs time - what time?what about me?i have also been hurt by everything but i am trying to patch things up?he has also hurt me physically and emotionally!

what about my parents who accepted him as one of their own kids? my dad isnt taking this sudden change in my husband very well - he is also a heart patient and this worries me alot!

I suspect that his family is trying to interfere in our marriage - they have always done so right from the start!

i am also worried that i wont get to spend time with my family when i go home - he says that i must choose who i want to spend time with and i cannot spend time with everyone together.

all of this has affected my well being - i am really trying to get out of this hole but it is taking its toll on me. i dont feel like eating anymore and sometimes have a small snack a day. my body aches and i am tired?

i want my life back
i want a peaceful relationship with my husband and i want to be close to my family
HELP

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

People usually ask for "time" or "space" when they don't really know what to do next. Counselling generally can solve the problem, but they have to recognize asnd embrace this idea for it to work. Marriage counselling !
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