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30 Aug 2007

not sure how to handle this
Hi CS
I have joined a network marketing company and I haven't told
my husband about it. When I told my husband that I am thinking
about joining it (although I already had) he said that I shouldn't do it as who would buy the products anyway. I feel so guilty that I am doing this behind my husbands back as we are very honest with each other all the time. How do I break it to him that I have already joined this company for 3 weeks already after he advised me not to. I would like to give it a shot at doing my best with the selling of these products but I feel that my husband is holding me back. Please help. Thanks
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Why did you feel it necessary to do this behind his back ? It may or may not be a great job, but would it harm either of you if it turned out to be a poor decision ? So, he said he didn't think it'd be a great job and what nobody would buy the stuff --- he may be right or wrong. But couldn't you discuss that with him ? How would he react if you said something like : "You know that job I said I was considering and you didn't think it'd work ? Well, I decided to take the plunge and give it a go anyway, just to see how it did turn out, and I've started and it seems to be going well. " ?
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