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27 Sep 2006

Please help!!! CS
I've been going out with this girl for more than 5 years. I must say that it has been more uphill than downhill, but I do feel a certain love for her. Recently she left me (again), claiming that she deserves better than what I'm giving her at the moment. I admit that at times I do not give her the attention that she deserves, but I also know that I have sacrifised a lot and that I can't change in a moments time.

Well after she left me, by shere coiincidence I met this wonderful decent soft hearted lady. We fell for each other almost immediately. My problem now is my ex. We've come a long way and it's almost as if I cannot let go. I don't know what to do. I know that I can have a wonderful future with the lady I fell for and we compliment each other in so many ways. It's gonna be a huge issue if I never go back to my ex, especially from her family's point of view. What do I do??????????????????????????????????????
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

This really, really, really, isn't my area of expertise, nor that of any shrink alive. If it has been such an uphill struggle, why have you stuck to her ? Why is it all about what SHE wants and expects, and not also about you ? And now you have found a really nice woman --- why keep worrying about the inconsiderate one who left you ? Maybe seeing a counsellor would help you sort this out ?
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