Stop being childish and sarcastic. I will decide, whenever I choose, to decline to answer questions which, however important they seem to the questioner, are NOT relevant to be asking a psychiatrist, or which have been answered in very closely similar questions, recently. There are no "chosen few" here, but there are ways in which sulky people can encourage one to make them one of the unchosen few. It is simply a physical and mental impossibility for me, or any other human being, to cope with the flood of postings appearing here, and I have to become more selective. And problems within love-affairs cannot take precedence. Also, generally such questions get hlpful responses from other readers, anyway