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05 Apr 2004

Re: Boyfriend Trouble
Hi
Don't know if you rem me, i wrote about could you love someone but couldn't be with them. Well my ex has been acting weird for the past two weeks. And the bottom line when i confroned him was he wanted me but didn't want me at the same time?? Me confused, you either want it or not, i was devastated and thought long and hard about the situation. The next morning i broke it off, its the second time he has broken it off, seems he hasn't grown up.i am hurting that's no lie, but i know he's happier without me, its what he wanted he just sisn't know how to do it..So hold thumbs for me so i can be ok, despite loving him to bits, something died and i know were not meant to be and i don't wanna speak or see him, might be wrong, butt the first time i could understand but second time round, come on, he's messing me around.
Wish him all the best in life and i know i'll get soomeone who wants me for me and not wanting to change me.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Dear Pauline,
I'm sure you're going to be OK. Sounds like a wise decision. We all grow up at different rates, and some guys take a really long time to get mature enough to be able to form and maintain a proper relationship. It's nice of you to be so caring about him and his future --- let's wish the same good things for you and your future, so you can start again, wiser than before, and form more sustained and sustaining relationships.
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