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01 Oct 2008

Re: Chubby girls get rejected
Hi All, sorry to bother you with a silly question but i have to ask it.
I am a 27 year old white chubby female and believe you me i can' t find anybody to love me the way i am. I am not huge but some white and indian guys are really horrible out there they say we should loose weight and why do i bother to contact them if i am FAT as they not interested. I guess we are not all the same in that way and everybody is different. Black guys are totally different to some big girls they love us and adore us and cherish us. I just want to know is there hope out there for big girls and if so where are all the good guys hiding...that want big girls

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I dislike Fat facism as much as you do -- the arrogance of those who nature kindly provided with slim bodies, or who can afford to diet and gym their way to be svelte, can be sickening. Culturally, I think black guys probably do appreciate the advantages of larger ladies more than other cultures. But if someone will base their opinion of you on one signle factor like that, they're not worthy of you, anyway. keep trying. And meanwhile, if with some extra attwention to diet and exercise, you can slim down somewhat, that'll be all the better for you
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