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13 Sep 2006

Re: Jealousy or not?
Hi Doc

My girlfrined is away for 3 days with a group of collegues (all woman), last nite i went out and she didn't have a problem with that. She went out aswell, but when i phoned later on she was at another place than what she has told me, her explanation was she didnt know that they were going to another place. I was quite furious, but dont have a problem with her going out. When she's home we actually never go out, but i get this feeling that this is the only chance she has away from me to go out. I was livid coz i never heard from her yesterday. Tonight they are going to the same place again, i asked her why she said that there's nothing else to do at the venue. Am i jealous? Is she doing stuff behind my back? Am i paranoid?

PLEASE HELP.

THANK YOU

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Aren't you being very possessive and controlling ? Have you never been away with friends, and the group changes their mind about where they'll go ? When and if you went away with friends, did you immediately start being unfaithful to your gf ? Or did you simply socialize with your pals ?
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