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07 Jan 2010

Relationship problems
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for the past 3 and a half years and we have been living together for 3 years. It has had its ups and downs. He uses my cell just like I use his cell, I found a video on his cell where he is recording a woman and he basically tells the lady he wants to sleep with her. I confronted him and he says he and his friend were joking with people.
I am at a point where I don' t know what to believe or trust. He says she is a complete stranger and it was just a joke. He thinks there is nothing wrong with what he has done. How do I know that he has not slept with this woman?
Is there any person that offers free counselling in pretoria?

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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Why don't some people realize that these are truly lousy jokes, even when they are actally intended to be jokes ? And who makes that sort of "joke" with a complete stranger ? He'd be likely to get his face slapped or be arrested !
Nobody else can tell you he did not sleep with this woman, or try to. And counselling would not solve that problem - only communication between you may clarify the situation. And free counselling is very rare, and limited to more serious problems, even though this one is obviously distressing for you
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