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11 May 2004

She doesn't trust me
well I still love her and I don;t think I want to go overseas without her.
NOw she's being harrased with missed calls and e-mails. She doens't know who it is. It s not me but she trusts no one, how can I get her to trust me again ?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hello again, confused.
I don't think anyone was questioning the sincerity with which you feel that you love her, but many people find the situation rings their alarm bells as to whether she loves you. And building your life plans around someone who doesn't truly love you, but doesnt respect you enough to tell you and talk about it, is rarely a very good idea. This sudden outbreak of harrassment of her sounds fishy and not highly convincing. She doesn't sound as if she is making it easy to trust her, nor does she seem to have any good reason for not trusting you at present.
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