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03 Oct 2006

stop calling him or not
i met this guy on the 10th of Sept. he works in CT but his job causes him to travel a lot and it is alos demanding so he ends up in meeting till late and normally during the day he is too busy to chat. i have phoned him twice during the day and he had been budy.i just dont know coz i actually kinda like him but i dont think he has the time now to have a girlfriend as he is too busy and i want to be ablet to be with the one i love more often than not.the first time we met it was a Sunday mornig,around 10am and we ended up going for a walk in the claremont gardens and really that was lovely and i thought this would be a goo star. he had promised to come to visit me the Tuesday and he had a meeting from 4pm till 11pm and i said to him he doesnt have to come but he insisted that he promised he was gona come so he wanted to keep to his word.which i thought was great. then after that he dissapeared for the rest of the week. the next time i phone him on a friday and he answers the phone and he said that he had just returned from jo'burg and when i asked him if the was a chance for us to see each other again he said not anytime soon. this really broke my heart and then i didnt say anything i just said ok its fine coz i wasnt really sure what to say. then then weekend passed and on Tuesday evening he sends me a message to say that he will be in Durban for the next two weekes and if it was possible for him to come see me in the morning before he left.i was shocked as i thought he didnt wan tto see me again so i said it was fine he could come. he canme took me to work,we talked but not anything serious really and then he was gone.he is supposed to be back today and i really dont want to call him until he calls me but i dont know if i will be able to stop myself coz i just dont know where this whole thing is going......
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01 Jan 0001

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