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24 Jan 2006

Strong/ but weak
Okay,i'm involved with a Guy named John, he recently left his wife and i have been in a relationship with him for 6 months. He was suppose to find his own pad, but has moved in with me temporily which he is entitled to do as he helps me with the rent. I never asked him to help but, he insisted. I enjoy him living with me, (its been about 3 weeks now) The problem is that because he is still emotional i get the left overs, after he has satisfied everyone, wife, kids, business etc. I know he loves me, because he always wants to spend time with me. I frustrated though, because while he is soughting himself out, my life is on hold. I don't always go out because he is there, then there are times when he goes out, i haven't made plans so i land up sitting at home, which frustrates me. I feel like just moving on, because i had a life and worked, but the problem is he is my soul mate. But then again what happens if he decides after another 6 months to go back to his wife.

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cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

As we always say, be very cautious about relationships formed on the rebound. And I don't believe in soul mates, and I DO believe that believing in soul mates causes many problems and much misery
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