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16 Sep 2008

Struggling to let go
My ex fiance'  and I were together for almost 7 years. We recently seperated ( I felt he took me for granted). I have developed feelings for a friend of ours (I THINK the friend feels the same about me).
I insisted that my ex and I remain good friends (we have seen eachother almost every weekend since the seperation).
This past weekend he lied to me about going to a braai with friends whom I know, while I went to another friends birthday party. It turns out he lied to me, and actually went to meet a girl he met on some sms chat service.
I feel so badly hurt and betrayed, even though I feel I have no right to feel like this seeing as I ended our relationship.
I am so confused. I feel like I just can' t let go, or imagine him with another woman.
Please, please, please advise.... My heart feel broken in a thousand different places. ....
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I have already responded to this message another time it was posted here. Eva also makes excellent sense
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