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18 Sep 2007

This stickability thing

CS I have realised this stickability thing I mentioned before is merely a lack of self confidence.....and a "rut" issue

I have made a friend out here in the bundu .... and the other day they invited us for a braai ....I agreed... but later I phoned her sayiing I didnt feel like it and could we cancel ..... she however saw through me like a pane of glass , ignored my pleas for a rain check and told me in no uncertain terms to haul my butt down to her place .... :) later she said to me .." I can see you are the type that has a problem crawling out from your little rock " well I wanted to crawl back under my rock .. I felt a complete idiot I hardly know the woman and she hit the nail on the head .....

Anyhow she told me that she loves my company and that Im like a breath of fresh air ... ???? I was dumbfounded I always felt that people didnt like me much...... then my client phoned me and told me how impressed they were with my work and that I have managed to bond with the "old lady" so well.

CS my client is 84 , she is semi blind and she runs her daughters business using her memory .. this lady is absolutly amazing ... and I so enjoy working with her ,..... she has so much to teach...

So i need to convince myself that It would seem that people do like me .. and my work is of high standard ....

Im a bit of a nitwit arent I ???? :) :)

Anyhow since I have crawled out of my little self dug hole Im having a ball .... I have even started learning to drive ..............



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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Interesting, I don't think any of us ever doubted that you were likeable, or that your work would be excellent ! Welcome to the world outside of the rock and the hole !
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