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18 Sep 2008

To all who replied to :Heart Broken with
Thank you to all who replied to my question. It is always great to recieve other people' s opinions. Last night my ex and I had a great chat, and concluded so many questions and fears with great understanding.
We have set eachother " free"  to make ourselves available for happiness.
Life isn' t always as complicated as we make it - we just need perspective and alot of understanding!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds as though you have both, so far, handled this in a mature and healing manner. As you say, life works better with perspective from the larger view, and a preparedness to understand the other person. Keep it up.
And I really like your phrase "making ourselves available for happiness". I don't think we have a right to happiness as though it should be delivered to our front door in parcels every day --- rather than the right to pursue happ[iness and to be available for it.
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