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26 Sep 2007

To Angela re: married man (post 2215)
Hi Angela, your post made me sit up and wonder what this world is coming to. My husband found a woman he could "chat" to, that shares his interests and feelings. Her name is Angela and she is apparently beautiful, not fat and ugly like me. He admitted that he has feelings for her and that if he had a choice, he would choose her. A married woman that works with him. They also go out for lunch, contact each other etc. I wish that you and this woman (maybe you're the same person) could feel the pain that I've felt the last 2 months. I am still with my husband because I love him very much, even though I still think about this every second of every day. I don't have anywhere to go or even someone to talk to. The hurt when he leaves for work in the morning is something I can't put into words, I even considered taking my own life as I cannot deal with this pain anymore. You will get what you deserve, maybe not now or in a months time, but you will pay for what you did and are still doing.

Hope you enjoy the next time you go out with him and chat with him, people like you disgust me.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Don't consider harming yourself --- it's them who are doing wrong, not you, and them who deserve punishment, which they will probably get from later unpleasantness between themselves. See a counsellor to work on these feelings, and to enhance your self-esteem. You are NOT fat and ugly --- your husband, ans this women, are ugly, for doing what they are doing
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