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29 Sep 2006

to : Elle and canthinkofaname
H Elle, I read your reply to canthinkofaname and I just started crying when I got to the part about when a child dies! You are so right! I lost my youngest brother 19/09/99 - he was brutually murdered and was only 30 years old! His death hurried my dad to his grave, my mom has still not gotten over his death and your words just hit home! My mom always says that it harder losing a child than losing a husband/partner and I could never understand why she said that until she said the following "A husband/partner you see coming, a child you give birth to" and then it made sense to me! So yes, ctoan, please go for help, don't do this to your parents. My partner's brother committed suicide 5 months, left no note, gave no indication so we are all still trying to figure out what made him do what he did! He was such a happy person and had the everybody problems all of us had, there were so many of us - family and friends - around to talk to but he chose to end it all. It is very hard for the people that are left behind so think of them too.
Sorry for the long mail!
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

You're so right, Charlie. However much of a burden our problems seem to be, we overlook the enormous brden we can create for others by self damage, and the pain is always worst for the people who don't deserve to be hurt by us, and negligable for those who cause us pain
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