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10 Jun 2004

To Lilo
Hi Lilo
The absence thing - that happens if the love is true. Somehow in this case I feel u could do better - Allot better.
Just wanted to share something with you.
As a woman I feel that I deserve to be treated with love, dignity and respect. My ex hurt me so bad and even though I still love him with all my heart I would never go back to him. Who wants to be treated like shit or denied or hurt over and over again? Think about it - we all want to be queens, to be treated with kindness, love and appreciation. My mom once said that the way a man treats you is entirely up to you. If you respect yourself, love yourself and know where to draw the lines no man will ever even have the nerve to even think about let alone try to treat you badly. You are the ruler of your fate and you the writer of your own destiny. One thing I can tell you is love yourself first! That man who is truly deserving of your love will come along ( someone who would never expect you to compromise your integrity or worth) and even if you do not believe it right now being single is not a bad thing at all.
When you think about all the good things and your heart feels torn and all you want to do is cry think just about all the bad or nasty things he's done - it will make you realise that you deserve a hell of allot better. Remember no man is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry ;)
You are way stronger than you give yourself credit for. While you heart and sanity are still in tact LET THIS SUCKER GO!!!!!
You will get over this - time heals.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Perfectly said. Bravo.
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