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25 Jan 2006

Truth be told
I've realised that when you love someone, they seldom love you back, when you treat them like crap, they tend to worship the gound you walk on.Good, honest people never get to cross paths. Its good plus bad. I'm saying this because I was with a man that treated me like he was doing me a favour by being with me, and I was sooooo In love with him and had an excuse for all his cruel actions and as a result he got some woman pregnant. Now I'm meeting nice guys and I don't have the time of day for any of them, I'm tired of giving and giving to the point that I feel that I have nothing left to give......I'm 24 years old and already I've given up on love, I'm a workaholic hence I'm still at work writing this. Is there anybody out there who is leading a normal life without any drama?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I can understand circumstances in which you might feel that way, but its not actually how most people work. The puzzle is why you allowed yourself to fel in love with a heel who treated you so badly. The biggest harm that bad guys like that do, isn't only in their relationship with you, but in persuading you to accept the false belief that all men are like them. Mercifully, they're not so. I don't think people naturally are born thinking the way you suggest ; though they may be converted to that way of thinking by encounters with bad people. hat's where counselling comes in to get more realistic
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