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16 Oct 2008

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We not on speaking terms. last night she didnt cook nor iron for me, cooked for myself, ironed and the washed my socks cos all were dirty and prepared my food for today...guys i want out of this relationship...i cant be with this person, i' ve igonred it for sooo long, and wasnt talking about it, Now that i' m talking with yu guys i feel much better,

Problem is, How do i get out of this? What if i never find someone who' ll love and treat me the way i' m supposed to? Please help me,
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Pleased to hear you're feling a biot better. If you feel convinced that THIS person doesn't love and care for you, then you have little or nothing to lose by leaving them and moving on. You're likely to find someone better suited to you, but don't rush into a fresh relationship too soon, before you have got over this one.
As DDD says, FAMSA type counselling may still help, not to patch things up, bbut so as to better understand how things went this wrong, fix them if possible, or at least to part with a better set of skills to avoid this happening again. Mwila seems to propose a reasonable course of action. The point wwhere I disagree with x is just this --- all sorts of problems within a couple can be solved IF they sincerely work together to achieve that. WHere one is stubborn, selfish and childish, their partner can't solve everything on their own
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