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11 Jan 2006

voice of reason
Firstly thank you for the advice from CS and Clueless for my posting named phew.

Things will get into a routine soon. BF going back to Durbs ext ext…boohoo – I will be fly down for a few days in about 10days for his Birthday – but then I don’t now how things will pan out to see each other – ie new job. He will be starting his internship so we have to see.

We have planned a whole romantic evening Friday night – just us two . Lunch with the friends (girls & boys) Saturday. And he has a boys night on Thursday – so I will spend that time pampering myself and just coming up for air. I think the best thing is to not loose track of each other even by being hectic, busy – or what ever the challenge at the time might be. Quality – that is the trick – to juggle everything and everybody – and still give each other Quality. Or what do you think?

Weird how logic says or gives you the right mindset or attitude or direction to go. Why is it that we need external affirmations or advice from others so badly sometimes?

How can you follow your own voice of reason with out doubting yourself?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Sounds like some good planning there, blompot. And as for your closing question, maybe one needs several experiences of following your own voice of reason --- and finding that the outcome is good, to begin really trusting your own opinion
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