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25 Feb 2010

want out
Hi there CS,
I have been married for four years. I regret it. I feel as if I am trapped, my husband isnt controlling or abusive or anything like that. I just want to be alone. I do not want kids- ever, he knows this and okay with it. I feel lost in a way, as if I havent discovered who I am yet, as if there is something missing.
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

YOu need to see a personal counsellor, to work on the unfinished business of becoming a person, which you seem not to have progressed with. One wonders why you married, if etermined not to have children, and if you wanted to be alone. There may well be something missing in terms of finishing your growing up and being ready to enjoy the adult world properly.
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