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03 Oct 2006

What is love?
What is love?

Love is not made for me. This weekend I met this wonderful guy. We had such a romantic weekend and I cried for the first time in my life- because of happyness. At one stage we just held each other tightly for about 5 minutes and not letting go.
Then comes the sms later: I dont want to have a relationship.

Should I accept that I will never meet someone as I have not had a relationship in this 19 years?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

No. Never draw such an extreme conclusion from one single experience. He mistreated you, and if he didn't want a relationship he shouldn't have started one --- but that's mostly his fault, not yours. Don't take the blame because he behaved like a cad --- if he was capable of behaving like that, you're well rid of him, even if the weekend felt great
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