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17 May 2004

why?
I am angry at my boyfriend. We have been trying to get things together for a while and finally started making head way into the right direction but I got a smack in the face. On Saturday night after a friend and I had a stupid fight I felt very depressed so decide to phone my boyfriend to tell him how I was feeling only to have his ex girlfriend pick up the phone and tell me to leave him alone becuase he no longer wants me and that he does not care for me and that they share a house together. Apparently he told her that I am running after him, yet he visits me almost everyday, I did not even have the strength to fight with her. She is obviously blinded by what is going on. This man has betrayed my trust and broken my heart. Why did he hurt me like this? I've always tried to make him happy, shown him love and respect and then this happens, why?
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

Hi Hurt,
I don't know why he did this, but if this is what he did, I am puzled as to why anyone would think he deserved to be loved. Check it out, as Anoka says, the ex could have been lying, strategically. But if it's true, dump him and forget him, and look for a real decent man.
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