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19 Sep 2006

X - Fantasie Issues
Almost 1 year ago now my girlfriend was due to give birth. Before the labor I found myself wanting to explore other women, I found myself on the internet seeking an affair. This type of behavior is not one of my characteristics. I have always been upfront and have never cheated on any of my relationships in the past.

I got a hold of one girl on the internet and we started having erotic sex chats. I wrote her a long sexually explicitly story (I won't go to into detail) but it was also involving the fetish side of things. It was long , descriptive and some what personal.

Any way I made the error of printing this story out and my girlfriend found it in my work bag(S**T) . Now 1 year later we are still having issues about this. I don't know what to do anymore. I told her it was just a fantasies story. Which - to me - it basically was. My fantasies fetish and has gone (a long time ago). I never had and physical affair or anything like that. Even if I was presented with the opportunity to have an affair at that point I would not have been able to go through with it.

Can you tell me if this is a common thing when your wife or girlfriend is in late stages of pregnancy. And do you have any ideas on how to sort out this mess I have made for once and for all.

Thanks
Albatross
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CyberShrink
cybershrink

01 Jan 0001

I agree fully with Buzz's comments. It isn't uncommon for men to stray, at least in their thoughts, in the late pregnancy of their partner --- not a pretty truth, but it happens. Relationship counselling to heal the relationship sounds indicated here.
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