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15 Sep 2006

I asked for help yesterday and I really needed it, it might have sounded to you like a small prob but to me it was huge, very huge. Some of you gave me courage and others just made me feel worse, I understand that you need to give an honost opinion in order to help but that was just plain rude and nasty. It really hurt me very much. But yes, without any help I needed to go home yesterday and fend for myself, I was so scared and didn't know what to do seeing that your opinions wasnt very helpfull, rather nasty. I sat and cried and eventually decided that I will write oupa a letter telling him how I feel and hoping that he realises he hurts me in the things he says. I wrote the letter but couldn't get enough courage to give it to him. I eventually tore the letter and wrote a whole new one, longer and more forward and I put it in his shirts pocket. That means he has already opened it and probably read it and that I will have a response tonight. The thing is as you insinuated me being a slut and irresponsible he has never forgiven me for falling pregnant and still living there. I want to make him proud with all that I have and each time I try there is something wrong in what I did to try. So, yes, that aside, you people hurt me very much when I was desperate enough to go on a chat forum for some advise, I'm 18 years old, I dont have all the answers. And by the way, if I was a fake why would I let people bad mouth me like that? What does it matter if anyone is fake, you presume someone is and then bad mouth them and speaking out of experience about how I felt yesterday, you will bad mouth someone on the furge of suicide and then they will do it, but hey luckily according to you you wouldn't have been fooled. What are you doing on this side if not to help?
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01 Jan 0001

Sounds like you found a useful solution, and lets hope that the letter helps to sort things out. let us know how he responds
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