Can anyone help me understand my cat. He is a 3 year old neutered Main Coon. I got a female kitty approx 9 months ago (also now spayed), but Mr. Main Coon thought this was the worst thing out, and decided to become extremely moody. He has sort of adjusted to the fact that we have another kitty, but he is becoming increasingly moody towards me. I cannot stroke or pick him up any more. He does have moments where I can touch him (for a few seconds) before he runs off with a huff and a puff. What concerns me the most is that when I am affectionate towards the female (who absolutely loves hugs and kisses), he stares at me with daggers. Thinking he also wants attention, I try and stroke him, and what happens, he runs off. I just can't seem to understand what he wants when he wants it. He also sometimes runs up to me meauwing, looking as if he wants some attention, just to run off if I do try and touch him. He has never been a touchy feely cat, but lately this is unbearable, I love him so much, why can't he accept the love we try and give him. Can any one help? It seems asif he has terrible moodswings and will tolerate the female up to the extent where they play and all of a sudden, he will agressively attack her. Help me please!