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24 Sep 2007

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I'm questioning my sexuality


1. Would someone that has had childhood abuse (sexual, emotional, physical etc) cause them to avoid sex? or would it be something else..like I've had numerous opportunities to do it with chicks but I'll shy away once it gets to that point and the only pleasure I've done is masturbating.

when I'm getting a lapdance from a chick, I don't get aroused until physical contact is involved from her and then when she grinds, I'll get the Tumescence but never the erection and I can feel that I orgasmed from the pulsing (?) but it only seems like only pre-ejaculate came out. The orgasm that I got doesn't feel the same like when I masturbate for some reason. I have had no sexual experiences with either sex.

Premature Ejaculation maybe? because the lapdance was 5 mins

anyways, if someone was gay, would they even ejaculate or their penis would get semi-aroused if there was physical contact?
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01 Jan 0001

Hi to you Sandbox and welcome to the forum. It doesn't sound as if you have an issue with your sexual orientation but are concerned about possible sexual dysfunction. Kindly post your question to the Sexology forum here on Health24.
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