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26 Jan 2006

Straight Girl meets interesting women
Hi, im straight, neva been with a women.
Just last week friday, i women i see often at a store started smsing me, we have been talking and shes made it clear she wants me.
Im quite taken by it, yet i dont know anything - how 2 act what 2 say. I saw her again yesterday and she kissed me, tells me shes crazy abt me.
I like her to and feel comfortable with her.

What should i do ? Try it out or stay away
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Gay, lesbian and bisexual expert
gay, lesbian and bisexual expert

01 Jan 0001

Hi Wow and welcome to our forum.

You tell us that until now you've considered yourself straight - which means that you haven't been sexually or romantically attracted to women. Yet a woman you've very recently met appears to have awoken a level of desire in you. Only you can decide whether to allow this to progress, but note that this woman sounds very seductive and may not be interested in a relationship. If your expectations are purely related to being sexually intimate with another woman you may want to explore this further but remember that you may be left feeling emotionally disappointed. If you decide to try it out be very aware of your expectations - is this purely about sex or are you hopeful of a relationship?

Don't worry about what to say or how to act, just be yourself and allow the other woman to take the lead. Importantly, don't do anything you're not entirely comfortable with.

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