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18 Oct 2006

Scared
Hi

I am probably supposed to post this msg to sexologist, but I think woman will be more supporting and understand.

I'm 23 and will be having sex sometime soon with my boyfriend, 25. I am a virgin, he is not. I am sooo scared. We have being fooling around and I tend to go totally dry. He's very aware of this and tries to relax me, goes down on me to help me etc. But I'm scared to death that when he will actually penetrate me I'll just close up and he won't be able to enter me or anything. I was raped as a child, but have dealt with it and thought I'm fine. Could this play a part?

I would really appreciate some advice etc.

Thanks
Me
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GynaeDoc
gynaedoc

01 Jan 0001

Take things slowly and allow your boyfriend to take lots os time stimulating you. Sometimes the position with you on top helps as you are in control. Use lots of KY jelly.

Best wishes
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